too much time?

Posted on Wednesday 18 February 2004

is it possible for two people to spend too much time together? is it healthy to spend every waking moment together? or perhaps the better question should be is it unhealthy to spend every waking moment together?

i think that the answer to this question is really dependent on the couple. some couples love to spend every waking moment with each other, while others like to have some kind of alone time to do their own thing, say with their own friends.

for me, i think that i like to have some personal time alone. it’s not that i would do anything special, but it is something that i like to have from time to time. i know of couples that spend all of their time exlcusively with each other and then when one has to go away the other seems lost because they don’t really know of a life outside of the other person.

different things work for different people. i guess we just have to find what works best for us.


2 Comments for 'too much time?'

  1.  
    February 19, 2004 | 2:38 pm
     

    can’t speak for everybody, but 24/7 is a bad bad idea. imho.

  2.  

    Jesan
    February 19, 2004 | 5:26 pm
     

    I would have to agree. 24/7 doesn’t give you the chance to be your own person. Everyone needs to know who they are and how the exist separate from the other person. Because in reality, that other person may not always be there….

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