what do you think about a person who you are friends with, but due to external factors you can’t hang out with them because they have an unreasonably jealous boyfriend? before the boyfriend you are friends, but alas, now that the boyfriend is in the picture, you can’t hang out with them…unless, of course, you see this friend when the boyfriend is away or busy. how does that make you feel?
for me, i guess i have no real expectations for this friend. i think that if they have prioritized the boyfriend over ever hanging out with me, then it smarts, but fine, i get it. i guess we’ll just have a simple and lighthearted friendship.
This is the 3rd time that I’m aware of that you posted about this, and I’ve only known you a year. I’m not sure if you’re complaining about the same person, but if you are, this must really bother you. Ever tried talking to her about it?
Is the “they” an intentionally gender-ambiguous reference?
’cause if it’s a gay dude you’re talking about, maybe there’s some other weird dynamic at play between them.
And regardless, I agree with Cindy.
That, and you should get all up in the boyfriend’s grill, yo. Say, “sucka, I’ll bust a cap in yo @ss if you don’t let me chill wit yo girl in the crib. You ain’t no pimp.” I’m pretty sure that, like me, you can’t pull that off, and he’ll end up laughing and recognizing you’re no threat…
(I can stand next to you in a ghetto pose, if it helps.)
i’m actually not trying to find any resolution with the person at this point. i’ve tried, but it doesn’t look like it is going anywhere. i thought that i had made my peace with things and i haven’t talked to the person for months. why they contacted me out of the blue escapes me.