one of the things that i’ve always known but never put much thought into is that i really don’t like to fight if i’m in a relationship. i don’t like conflict. when i’m dating someone it will bring me great amounts of distress if i find that we fight often.

it boggles my mind how couples can stand to be together if they are constantly bickering or arguing about something or another. i have always thought that a relationship is always supposed to have a happy dynamic, so when i hear about how other couples can constantly bicker about things, it makes me wonder how healthy it really is. maybe i’m being a little idealistic here, but i think that’s how you should be when you are thinking about spending the rest of your life with someone.