i had a very unexpected, but very pleasant visit from jenny over the weekend. she was in town for a wedding and an interview and we had lunch to catch up. i had been giving her a hard time for avoiding me whenever she was in town, so i guess all of the guilting finally worked (after years!) and we had lunch and pearl tea.

we don’t really get to see each other often and our lives have been busy with much change recently so it was good to catch up. it’s nice to know that though we haven’t kept in regular contact that we’re still able to pick things up as if a day had never passed away.

it makes me wonder what kind of a friendship do you need to have where that is the case. with some friends that i haven’t talked to in a while, the lack of communication makes me feel like there’s a distance between our friendship. with others, it doesn’t seem to matter.