everyday we go through life and we learn. we learn from our mistakes and we learn from our experiences. sometimes we make mistakes, but we never really feel any of the consequences of those actions. when that happens, we never feel the pain of the consequences so we are never forced to change the way we do things. and since we were never given the opportunity to learn from our mistakes (since we never knew it was a mistake) we just go on our merry way thinking that this is the way that life should be.
sometimes we have to let our loved ones get burned by their mistakes. it’s always painful to see other people suffering, but sometimes it’s the only way that they will learn life’s lessons.