one of the biggest pet peeves i have when resolving issues with me is when one decides to just wait until i forget why i was so upset and just go back to how things were before i got upset.
what bothers me even more is if the person realizes that they do this and think that it’s better this way.
what do you think about a person who you are friends with, but due to external factors you can’t hang out with them because they have an unreasonably jealous boyfriend? before the boyfriend you are friends, but alas, now that the boyfriend is in the picture, you can’t hang out with them…unless, of course, you see this friend when the boyfriend is away or busy. how does that make you feel?
for me, i guess i have no real expectations for this friend. i think that if they have prioritized the boyfriend over ever hanging out with me, then it smarts, but fine, i get it. i guess we’ll just have a simple and lighthearted friendship.