my first day of rest and relaxation and i spend it watching everwood. i never finished watching the last four episodes and so much has happened! where does one begin?
it is sad to see that ephram and amy’s relationship has deterioated to the point where ephram feels that they should just be friends. where once he had loved her with all of his life, he is now throwing that away. and for what? who knows?
and now andy has professed his love to his neighbor, nina, who has just had her boyfriend move in with her. but he tells her anyway and he kisses her. how wrong is that?
i’ve been seeing a lot of shows where people would go and tell other people that they have feelings for them, despite the object of their affection already being in a committed relationship. i find this to be so wrong. but it does make for good television.
is it really *that* wrong? some feelings are just beyond your control and override all logic.
It is wrong. I agree. Especially that it’s when a guy realized that the girl they supposedly love is happy with another guy, the posessiveness kicks in and decide to mess it all up for the girl. That is not love, it’s selfish. You missed your chance, buddy, now stay back and be happy for the girl. I have my beef.
I agree w/ivy. Having feelings may be harder to control, but acting on impulses is WELL within one’s control. That’s the biggest thing that sets us apart from animals. I have my beef, too.
oh boy…i better watch what i say. ivy and cindy are attacking me big time. =)
would you rather live your life wondering “what if…” or know that you’ve acted on your feelings?
True, but there’s a time and a place. And there’s discretion and propriety. And there’s regret when you’re feeling stupid because you should’ve known better. And there are consequences to hurting people for one’s selfish reasons.
Haha, Cindy took the words out of my mouth. I will add this in addition: I’d rather not live with “what if… “, however, in the continuum of time, there was always at least several moments where one can express his feelings. Once that opportunity is lost, his chance is gone, and it’s no one’s fault but his for chickening out or for whatever reason now he’ll just has to live with “what if…”